Where has it gone wrong????

How we wish Wen can behave like other kids - sit still on high chair while eating, play on her own when strapped to a push-chair, walk properly without picking up those dirty things on the ground and straight to her mouth, guai guai sitting down while in bus or cab.......etc. All these seems so far away from us. Our perception of parenting did not turn out the way it should be, perhaps these are unforeseen circumstances.

We have decided to dine out today and of course have to bring our little princess along. Nowadays, we dun even bother to bring our push-chair out as we noe Wen will not sit on it cos the moment we want to put her down, she will grab hold and cling on to me like a kaola bear with her leg tightly 'hugging' me, faking her cries as if it's real, so we let her be.......Now that she can walk quite well already, she become ya-ya and dun wanna us to hold her or she'll make noise indicating tat she's buay song liao......but this time round we dun give face, we'll carry her away if have to. Of course, she'll burst into loud cry sometimes fako one and creating a scene.....still we were left with no option to choose. Where did our discipline go wrong or izit part of growing up pains???? We really dunno.

It's a decision made, a choice we have agreed on and chosen thus we were mentally prepared before the 'making process', so she's not a burden but our responsibilities we have to uphold.

She can be a darling at times, melting our hearts so much so tat we couldn't bear to scold or beat her......Yes, we noe we are at fault, letting her having the opportunity to test the boundaries we have set. We have to constantly remind ourselves to be firm. As a parent, we really hope we are on the right track teaching her the correct things. However, whenever she do something tat we cannot tahan, then when she return us with her smile and start calling us papa...mama....her every smile and laughter will make us forget how naughty she is.......Guess we love her sleeping most cos tat's her cutest and angelic moments.............